Looking Into The Windows of my Soul…

Sometimes I look deeper.. Deeper within. ‘Cause I hope you know that Vulnerability is an eye to the window of your soul. I remember a time when I knew I had skills; yet I didn’t use them. I took no risks. It wasn’t until I began to “call myself a photographer, that I truly became…

Settling.

Greener Pastures: (My post on Better Self-Worth& Esteem) Psalm 23:1 “The Lord is My Shepherd. I lack nothing.” I‚Äôm learning to appreciate everything these days….. And I am blessed to be able to be living in a place where I‚Äôve been for seven years. It‚Äôs been a journey of acceptance; yet also esteem. Approximately 13…

Confidence.

Since this month I am¬† speaking about esteem…¬† and where it comes from¬† and how it’s developed, I wanted to share¬† my story on¬† how I personally developed¬† my confidence and esteem . It’s¬† a story of several¬† weaved into one,¬† but¬† they¬† all have¬† ¬†deep meaning.¬† ¬†My¬† story¬† doesn’t¬† begin here.. but I wanted…

HAPPY People are Healthy People

Just sharing on how Happy People Are Healthy People! #NthabiHappy ¬†Happy people¬† do healthy¬† activities. ¬†Happy¬† people¬† care about¬† who they call “friends”.¬†They make¬† good choices¬† about who they spend their time with , and if those people are not¬† encouraging or¬† ¬†uplifting, they detach. ¬†Happy¬† people¬† enjoy¬† good company of¬† those who pour¬† goodness…

My Natural Hair Story/Journey

If you’d ask what’s the one thing that helps me to feel alive…its my hair. ¬†I a absoooooolutely ¬†love ¬†having ¬† locs that are free …MOST of the time, and ¬†it ¬†feels ¬†good to ¬† just have natural ¬†hair that GOD made… and ¬†see how the journey ¬†helps me to be free ¬†with the ¬†growth…

I AM ENOUGH BECAUSE I AM AWARE.

I decided to write a new series. I was in a ¬†Celebrate Recovery group and¬† talking about feeling “helpless”. It was a process for me to discuss in group, because as soon as I¬† spoke about why I tend to feel worried and¬† procrastinate on some things, I realized that¬† This vulnerable space I often…

Worthiness.

Am I worthy? How do I know? What I base my ¬†worth upon? I ¬†began to ask myself these ¬†questions about ¬†my worth when ¬†I ¬† was about thirty five. ¬†I ¬†didn’t stop til I washabout 38. I used to base it upon ¬† what my ex-husband ¬†thought was ¬†good and acceptable. ¬†Even after I…

Ever just wanted to be someone else?

Ever just wanted to be someone else? I have. I remember when I was in¬†¬† seventh grade.¬† I had¬† models and popular¬† people plastered all over¬† the walls in my bedroom like:¬† Phylicia¬† Rashaad, A.K.A.¬† “Claire¬† Huxtable –¬† because she was¬† the ‘ideal black¬† mother’¬† &¬† had it together – back in my day, ¬†…