Missing babies… My #50daystofifty series…

So one of the blessings of being almost 50 is I get to enjoy all the babies without bringing them all home. Awesome, right? I have never had the pleasure of having children born from my own womb, but indeed, like the Bible says: “children are a heritage of the Lord.” If God Himself sees…

Spending Time At Home – As Friends.

When I was little, I used to spend time making friends. I cared so much about people. When my sister’s and brothers boyfriends and girlfriends cam over I’d hang, too. When in elementary school, the people others didn’t like, I would befriend them. They could see too, that I liked them. I never had a…

Day 4. Weathered. #50daysToFifty

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity and an understanding of life that fills them with compassions, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not…

I Am Enough, Because I Am Imperfect.

I am. I’m Imperfect. And it’s ok. How can  imperfection benefit us? Is it a blessing, or a curse? Maybe it’s neither. Well… here’s how it works for me, and you be the judge. Benefits of Imperfection: 1.It can help you dream to more. 2. It makes you stronger and  push harder. 3. It causes…

Day 3: The Blessing of (Spiritual) Maturity. #50DaystoFifty

Ahhh…. The blessing of Maturity! Feels good, right? Ha! (Yeah right.) So, today I  am  writing today about  maturity.  Well…  when you really look at  it, maturity is  necessary,. We  don’t get any  younger, and with every  turn of   a  lesson learned, we need to gather the information  and use it, for some good, right? …

Day 2. #50DaysToFifty – Fifty… Is More Insistent.

When something is persistent, or insistent, it is demands  attention.  It sort of  puts it out there, and then it either happens, or we move on.  If it’s meant to be, it  lasts, and if not, then we  don’t begin   again… we move on.   We don’t  have time for all that.  Fifty  sort of teaches you…

Day 1 : Fifty. #50DaysToFifty

So I have been taking a series of photo shots  and microblogging as it   relates  to  ne  turning fifty,  this year.  Then I realized the photos   alone, were not  enough.  Yes, they speak, but there’s so much more to say. Some  of those  photos are pretty spectac… and   the others ..well, they are just me,  being me.  I…

The Day I visited Kuma, South Africa.

“Not that I am implying that I was in any personal want, for I have learned how to be [content (satisfied to the point where I am not disturbed or disquieted) in whatever state I am. I know how to be abased and live humbly in straitened circumstances, and I know also how to enjoy…

4 Reasons Not To Live with Regret.

So… I remember a time in my life when I was really  indecisive. I remember I was trying to please others so much, I forgot about myself.  In that process, I  made  a lot of decisions that  didn’t give much regard to my life, or  emotional safety. What I wanted out of life, was on the…

On Being Content.

  Philippians 4:11, 12  “Not that I am implying that I was in any personal want, for I have learned how to be [content (satisfied to the point where I am not disturbed or disquieted) in whatever state I am. I know how to be abased and live humbly in straitened circumstances, and I know also how to…

pursue family.

How is this …on my blog about pursuing me? perhaps because it reflects family. and i really, really love families. I love how we create that cultural  magic. and just shine. our inner lights  reflecting our joy – and our  love for one another.   how we groove. how we move. how we  find healing…